Why the negative, the disbelief, the blame.


Wow it has been an interesting year. Loss and gain of loved ones. It is amazing how much love was in a room to celebrate the end of a life, the beginning of a life, and the beginning of two lives together.

And yet in between all those celebrations there is still blame, negativity, and disbelief.

How is it when family and friends come together, that before and after the hurt and hostility is still the same. How can LOVE be blooming for a day and then lost the next?

How can a mother shut out her son?

How can a son side with his bride about what she believes is his family’s history?

When is it time to shut out the negative and concentrate on the positive? When is it time to no longer care about who no longer believes in you? When is it time to explain the blame and who is responsible and that it may even be yourself but it may hurt others?

When is it time to walk away?

So much love in one room, so much happiness, so many good memories, yet…..


About me

Northern country girl, daughter, mother, wife, fiscal conservative, social liberal, recovering catholic, environmentalist, equality rules! Proverbs 31 Girl. You may as well say, 'That's a valiant flea that dare eat his breakfast on the lip of a lion. William Tecumseh Sherman When you wake up in the morning and your feet hit the floor.... the devil says "oh crap, she's awake"...

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